The Exhaustion Is Real, and It Isn't Normal Aging
Doctors hear the same three sentences from people in their 60s and 70s, usually offered as a joke on the way out the door. I sleep eight hours and wake up feeling like I never slept at all. I feel fine in the morning, then I hit a wall every afternoon. I've always been a good sleeper, but something changed.
It shows up in small ways first. You stop planning anything for the afternoon because you know you'll be no good by then. The yard work gets split across three days. You sit down to rest your eyes at two and wake up at three thirty, a little embarrassed, and if you're honest, a little scared.
Because it creeps in slowly, almost everyone lands on the same explanation: this is just what getting older feels like.
But healthy people in their 60s and 70s are not supposed to feel worn out after a full night in bed. Deep tiredness that sleep doesn't fix is a signal, and it's trying to tell you something. In a surprising number of cases, it traces back to one thing a basic checkup almost never connects to how you feel in the morning.
For two years I told myself this was just being 68. I planned my whole life around a nap I never used to need. Turns out 68 wasn't the problem. (Beverly A., 68, Ohio)